Sunday, October 25, 2009

Ready, Get Set....

Ready...Get Set...

Just say these words to Munch and watch him throw up his arms and yell:

GOOOOOOOOO!

At 16 months, that pretty much sums up his life's philosophy. He's always on the go, taking on each day with astounding energy and endearing good humour.

Although I had initially thought he'd be a bit later on his milestones than his big sister, except for that first roll-over which he managed a couple of weeks later than she did, he's actually been at least a month ahead of her in everything else.

I suppose it's because Munch believes he's really three years old, and therefore sees no reason why he shouldn't turn somersaults, jump off coffee tables, go up the slide the wrong way, and hang upside down off railings, just like his sister does. The only problem is that his gross motor skills, while fantastic for a 16 month old, are really not upto 3 year old standards. So he's never without a bruise or bump somewhere on his body, but he doesn't let that ever dampen his enthusiasm. Every cut or bump is forgotten and he goes back to do the exact same thing within minutes of the last tear being wiped. Whether that stems from real courage or from having bumped his head one time too many, only time will tell, but it certainly makes for exciting times around here!

Probably because of hanging around his extremely verbal sister (here we go again, do second borns EVER get any credit?!) Munch is so much better at communicating with us than Moppet was at this age. Not only does he have a large number of regular words, he also has some specific babble words that are used consistently for the same situation. So 'pacha pacha' is always said while handing over a bottle or a box and means open / take the lid off. Or 'minnum minnum' which means 'I want', or 'Taa!' said with a fat little hand held against his own cheek, meaning 'hot!'. And he understands so much of what we tell him too, it's amazing.

When he was barely a month old, I got the feeling that he'd be the family funny guy. I was right. He delights in getting a laugh out of his audience, and he gets plenty. His antics have us in splits all the time, and he's always coming up with new 'acts'.

At 16 months, I'm happy to report that while he continues lives up to his nickname of MatterEaterLad, his palate has gotten marginally more discerning. He's still happy to sample anything new that comes his way, animate or inanimate, but at least he's now better at recognising (and spitting out) inedible items. This also makes feeding him rather a pleasure, since he's open to a variety of tastes and textures, in stark contrast to Moppet who is an exceedingly fussy and slow eater. I have on several occasions caught her palming off her food on him which he, despite having already finished his own meal, is only too happy to accept.

He continues to maintain his easy-going good humour and is rarely cranky. He may sometimes be a little clingy around me, but usually that's only when he senses I may be going out without him, or when I've just come back home. Since for second kids, sharing is the only way they've ever known, there's none of that jealous possessiveness that consumed Moppet at this age. He is a teeny bit possessive about her, though - I've noticed that he doesn't quite like it when she plays with other kids. He comes around and generally tries to poke or shove the other child away.

He can be quite a ruffian at times and likes to play rough. Poor Moppet bears the brunt of this, because he throws himself on her and sometimes even bites her. It's him being playful and affectionate, but I've had enough of those bites to know it really hurts. And since I'd drilled into Moppet the need to be gentle with 'the baby', she neither resists nor retaliates, and just lies there crying piteously. It has reached a point where, unable to get the message across to Munch that this sort of play is not appreciated, I've had to show Moppet how to push him away firmly but gently.


Life with Munch is a big barrel of laughs, punctuated by mini heart attacks, and laced with exhaustion. But every night, despite the tiredness, I find myself holding him for a while after he has fallen asleep, his warm body curled into me, his head nestled in the crook of my elbow. I listen to him breathe, feel his eyelashes on my arm, and gently stroke his cheek. For those few minutes, I close my eyes and pretend that I have stopped time, and my walking, talking, 16-going-on-36 month old toddler is still my little baby.

33 comments:

Timepass said...

Finally an update from you..Loved all the pics..my hi to munch and moppet

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

What a lovely, lovely update! Enjoyed reading every bit of it!

And the last para...I know what you mean! I sooooo know what you mean :)

mybabynaren said...

Lovely reading about the kids. Ouch! Sounds like his bites are really scary ones :( But Moppet is being the model big sister and not hitting him back or something. Oh yeah! the last para sounds very familiar.

Collection Of Stars said...

They make a lovely pair :)

dipali said...

Lovely post well worth the wait! God bless the lad and his big sis!

Sue said...

True. Us second-borns never get any credit. Obviously, this is the bit that grabbed my eyeballs, as they say.

:I

Poppins said...

What a beautiful post - loved everybit of it. Will be re-reading it in the next few weeks (out of boredom from waiting for your posts ofcourse:)

P.S Guilt tripping not working?

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awww! my bootiful son-in-law-to-be is such a shining light or what? bless his ickle cotton socks.

Mama - Mia said...

awesome update!!! :)

give lotsa hugs to Munch, will ya?!

cheers!

abha

Subhashree said...

Lovely update, Maggie... can't believe he is 16 mo... it looks like only now you guys moved. Love and kisses to Moppet and Much. Take care.

karmickids said...

What is this hurry to grow up, I ask you?

Subhashree said...

:ong time, no posts? Come on.

churningthewordmill said...

u really have a way with word,Maggie... u describe you children so beautifully.. its almost as if their personalities come alive right thru the post!:) i realise i need to stop by more often!!!

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Poppins said...

Still re-reading it with a smile. Miss you girl. Come back!

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